Recently in Sweden, it was decided by an indoor public swimming facility to allow women to swim topless. The reason for this was because gender equality, that the same rules should apply to both women and men. I had a conversation about this with a woman who studies gender science and it led me to the conclusion that these people are quite frankly out of their minds.

Why? According to her it’s about desexualizing the female breasts. I have to ask, is that really a road we want to take? I asked her if she really didn’t want her man to look at her breasts and become aroused, she said it would be different because they share an intimacy together and that would make her breasts desirable to her man but any other sets of perfectly shaped tits would be like… ehm, shoulders, or something.

Call me a caveman but I don’t think women want men to stop becoming horny by their exposed bodies. Am I wrong? I’m not saying women should be objectified and that they need to be naked to be validated by men. I’m just saying sex and nudity has a time and a place and should remain a tiny bit mystified. Another reason is that I as a (hu)man kind of would like to choose when I want to see naked people. I would like to choose when I get aroused by someone. I simply don’t want to see naked women everywhere because walking with a erection is pretty damn hard (until it becomes desexualized which then probably would lead to pretty damn boring sex).

To the above stated and last mentioned reason many feminists would argue that it’s my problem if I become horny because a woman shows “too much” and that it shouldn’t be a woman’s problem if a man gets turned on by the way she dresses. Well, the day your man stops looking at you in any type of sexual way because your body has been desexualized, then you’re the one with the problem.

Let’s pretend that the “shared intimacy” between a couple would be a valid explanation to how it would be different between seeing nudity on the streets and nudity in the bedroom. Let’s pretend that it is my problem that I become aroused by women’s naked bodies. Let’s look at it from the perspective that (the male dominated) society has shaped my sexual identity and that breasts make me horny because they are covered. In this case I would be called the predator and women would be my victims (pet nearest women on the head now).

Let me then ask you this. What about makeup? Feminists (who use makeup) strongly and passionately argue that they have to wear makeup to be accepted by society. That, if they don’t wear it, they are considered outcasts and weirdos. They say they are victims of a society which has shaped them to believe that they are not beautiful without any makeup. They say that they are victims. Again, victims.

I will speak for men all over the world and say that, we don’t care about your latest foundation or eyeliner. Sure, a little makeup can look good but between a little makeup and Lady Gaga there is a lot of room for customization. Yet women see themselves as victims in this.

If women are victims in this regard, what are we as men when it comes to our fixation of breasts and nudity? We have grown up in the same society which has told us that boys don’t cry, feelings are for girls and tits are awesome. We get bombarded by airbrushed silicone women all day everyday and you want to talk about being victims and us being predators?

Let’s face it. Sex is already oversaturated in society and feminists need to get over this whole Predator/Victim issue. We are all victims and predators within the confiding walls of society which tells us to supersize, touch up, tuck in and flip out. At this point I’m not far from reducing these feminists to insecure women with penis envy and I’ll be damned if I’ll let that come between me and juicy boobs.